How To Find Your Ideal Dildo To Maximize Your Pleasure

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Almost every woman considers using a dildo at some point in their life. They’re very handy, whether it’s to replace the absence of a significant other, to get a better feel of sexual pleasure or to further enjoy their masturbation sessions. Popular, versatile and very easy to find, dildos are great tools for discovering and fulfilling your sexual needs.

But picking the best dildo might seem like a drag, as the sheer volume of products available in the market can be staggering. And they don’t all come in the same designs. While most look very close to an actual phallus, others may overwhelm you with their unusual shapes, unfamiliar features, and in many cases, shocking sizes!

Different to what you might think, finding a dildo that suits your specific desires isn’t that hard. On the contrary, knowing what you want makes it easier to pick your ideal dildo. You’re not alone in this, as lots of women out there also went through such dilemma when it came down to getting one, including those who are already familiar with it.

What you need is a guide to give you a few tips, and with it, you can easily decide if a dildo is made especially for you. But let’s start from the basics, for the first-timers, shall we?

What Are Dildos?

Dildos are adult toys that emulate the phallic nature of the male genitalia. To put it simply, they’re artificial penises used by women to achieve sexual satisfaction by manual penetration. With it, a woman can experience the same kind of pleasure she gets from a real penis either anally, orally or through vaginal penetration.

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As a lot of women are constantly craving for new sexual experiences, these adult toys are usually made from plastic polymer (PVC, ABS, TPR, TPE, and silicone.) and also come in varying designs, shapes, and functions to give you that extra fun. After you discover how to use a dildo, the satisfaction these versatile sex toys can give you is limitless.

How To Choose The Perfect Dildo For You

How do you know you’ve found your ideal dildo when you pick one? Well, the answer is simple. You know what you like in a real penis, and the best ways to guarantee complete sexual pleasure for yourself, right? So, keeping these points in mind is the first step. The second step is taking note of the factors you can find on these masturbation toys.

The Perfect Size

Most women prefer a dildo that exceeds the average human penis size by an inch or two. For them, sizes between 6 and 8 inches (ca. 20 cm) work best. Other women prefer to kick it up a notch, by selecting big dildos ranging from 10 to 12 inches (ca. 30 cm). Of course, there are larger types, popularly termed ‘monster dildos’; huge toys that can measure from 13 to an eye-boggling 18 inches (ca. 46 cm)!

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Your specific needs, your previous experiences and the thirst for a new adventure will determine your ideal dildo size. This is why you must pay close attention to how big you want it to be. Too big, and it might ruin the mood. Too small, and it won’t even get you there at all.

The Perfect Texture

Generally, most women prefer the kind that gives a feeling that’s closer to the real thing. These are the realistic dildos, with a texture that almost feels like a real penis. These types can bend slightly, and are soft at the head and upper shaft, as real erect penises are.

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There are, of course, other types that have harder exteriors, but unless it’s a vibrating dildo, chances are you might not get the complete feeling of excitement you’re looking for. So, if you want to get the best out of your sex toy, look for one with a squishy, softness. They also come with a hard middle core, giving the shaft enough rigidity, so penetration worries are settled!

The Perfect Colour

Surprisingly, your perfect choice is made or marred by the colour of the dildo. Here, you have two options; the realistic or the generic ones. For the former, you get to choose between shades that mimic whatever racial skin tone you fancy, as the black dildos, for instance.

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However, if you’re more turned on by generic colour schemes, then you will find one made especially for you. And if colour is a no for you, there are the transparent types that can almost pass as glass dildos, though the material is polymer. You can even get a combination of both colour and translucence if you so desire.

Dildo Design

As the main aim is sexual satisfaction, these penetrative sex toys have different textures and designs. Some are smooth, while others have veins on the shaft. Some are double dildos; the main one fixed side-by-side with an anal dildo. Other types are double-ended dildos and are usually up to 16 inches (ca. 41 cm). And they may be used manually or with a vibrator with switch or remote.

The vibrating kinds are the go-to option if you prefer to lay back and let the sex toy do all the work. Most hard textured ones belong to this category, but there are realistic options as well. Some of these rotate, so the shaft fully caresses the vaginal walls. And there are the thrusting dildos that mimic the penetrative motion of a real penis.

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However, a better sexual pleasure with adult toys comes with the feeling of it being ‘real’. To get this, a realistic dildo comes with some extra features to encourage such feeling. Consider them for maximum pleasure.

Dildo With Suction Cups

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While manually controlling penetration is a great advantage, it does get tiring sometimes and limits the positions you can experience when masturbating. It’s why getting a dildo with suction cup is a must. With it, you can place the sex toy in whatever position you prefer. Suction cup dildos give you greater versatility, allowing you to enjoy positions like the cowgirl and doggy!

Dildo With Balls

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The balls at the end of the shaft not only give you the feeling of being penetrated by a real man but also serve a practical purpose. They control how much of it goes into your vagina, and if you’re using it for anal sex, you further appreciate this feature. Plus, when combined with the squishy texture, dildos with balls give you an experience feels more natural.

Slim Dildos

Most options may seem to be on the fat side, but there are slim dildos made just for those who prefer it that way. A lot of women prefer penises with girths below 5 inches (ca. 13 cm), and if you’re one of those, bear this in mind when selecting an adult toy. This, of course, doesn’t mean you’re compromising length. A slim dildo can still be selected at any length you choose.

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Finding the ideal dildo to maximize your pleasure isn’t a tough call. It all depends on knowing what to look out for. In the end, it boils down to what you love, because the end game is to please yourself better than you’ve ever experienced.

With these tips in mind, you can browse through our exotic collection of fully realistic dildos in all sizes. We’re sure you’ll find one that’s just what you need. And whatever you consider, be sure it is what you know will satisfy your sexual desires to the fullest.

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